Three Things My Mother Taught Me

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After reading lots of moving tributes to mothers yesterday on Facebook, I was thinking of my own mother and how grateful I am for all that she taught me.  My mother was a wise woman who raised six children who love her and love each other.  She's gone now, but her life lessons live on. I'd like to share just three of the many things I learned from my mother: 1.  Housework isn't all that important.  With six kids, Mom certainly did her share of housework, but it was not her top priority.  Our home was clean enough to be safe and messy enough to be comfortable.   I remember … [Read more...]

When Mother’s Day Wasn’t Happy

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I used to dread Mother's Day.  That was the day we went to church and all of the moms were asked to stand up and be recognized during church.  Some years the moms even got a carnation.  It was a lovely gesture for all the moms in attendance, and I'm positive that the person who thought up the idea of recognizing moms in church with applause and flowers never intended to hurt anyone.  There were, however,  a decade of Mother's Days when I had to summon all the control I could muster to keep from crying when the carnation-bearing ushers passed me by.  It's hard not to be a mom on … [Read more...]